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homework before deciding is always prudent. Once you decide, and you move into your new digs, whether a home, condo, or townhome, enjoy this new chapter in your life. Also, don’t be afraid to get involved, whether running for the board, signing up for a commit- tee, or joining a club. It’s a great way to meet new neighbors and make new friends. n

like this. You have to ask yourself, “is it right for me?” For my husband and I, it was not. What conveniences and “must haves” are important to you and what inconveniences are you willing to deal with? Do you want a small or large community? Ask others about their experiences living in an adult community. Visit many communities to narrow down your choices. Doing your

an indoor pool. This was in addition to the many other amenities: game rooms, exercise rooms, a huge ballroom, bil- liards room, an arts and crafts room, bocce ball, horseshoes, shuffleboard, a putting green and tennis courts. This summer, pickle ball courts will be ready to use. We had the option of purchas- ing a townhome or a single family home and decided that we wanted a new home rather than a resale. We sold our condominium rather quickly and have been in our home for nearly four years. Our home has three bedrooms, 2½ bathrooms, a dining room, and a great room/ breakfast room/kitchen in one big open room. Our model is great for entertaining. We also have a 2 car garage. After submitting a PMR (property modification request) and getting approval from the Covenants Committee, we have done our own landscaping around our home’s perim- eter. Our community offers numerous activities including; cultural arts events, parties, trips, sports, and many clubs. We have hosted two neighborhood parties to meet our new neighbors. We now have 5 grandchildren. Our Long Island daughter and her family now stay with us overnight when visit- ing. They have the entire 2nd floor — 2 bedrooms and a bathroom to them- selves. Our decision to buy a house was a good one for us and we couldn’t be happier! Let my experience be a cautionary tale to those considering a move to an “adult community.” Be certain about your decision before you buy. There are many benefits to living in a community

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